I honestly can’t put into words how disgusted and disturbed I am about this After business.
Domestic violence is never romantic, and if you are choosing to use After as a form of sex education, or as a template for your current/future relationship(s), I strongly encourage you to please educate yourself on domestic violence and to please seek help if this is a situation that you are currently in, or if it is a situation that someone you know is currently in.
My judgement of your taste in literature aside, I cannot sit idly by when, statistically speaking, we know that rationalization for instances of domestic violence are usually a warning sign that domestic violence is being experienced in some way by the person who is rationalizing/making excuses. Here are a few links you might find helpful, and if anyone else knows of more to add, please do:
Domestic violence hotlines and resources
Domestic violence education and therapy resources